“Let’s just drop it.”
“I don’t want to talk about it.”
“I can’t say that!”
“I could never ask my partner to do that.”
“Excuse me. Can I just go now?”
I get it. Talking about sex can be super uncomfortable – even when it’s positive.
“Oooh, yes! More!” For some, it just isn’t the easiest thing to say.
But especially when it’s not –
“Stop. That hurts.”
“I really don’t like it when you _____, but um, thanks for trying.”
Ouch. Nobody wants to hear any of that.
But we all want to feel good and to have our needs met
Thankfully, I have no shame in talking about sex – nothing’s off limits.
Hit a dry spell?
Want to try something new but don’t know how to bring it up?
Through open, honest dialogue, we can bring up the topic in a manner that’s both supportive and productive.
Sex doesn’t have to be limited only to penis in vagina to be satisfying.
Intimacy can involve many things and encompass a variety of options.
I’ll encourage and guide you to discuss what you both like, as well as introduce things you might enjoy trying!
We can also delve into non-sexual intimacy.
Our society has this weird expectation that intimacy must mean sex, and by sex, penis in vagina.
But real intimacy encompasses much more.
There are almost endless different ways that you can engage intimacy that don’t involve penetration of any kind.
We’ll talk about what makes you both tick and bring intimacy back into the picture.
Safety and comfort are paramount.
We can also talk about consent!
And we can even talk about subjects that most people consider “off limits,” without judgment or fear.
Creating and nurturing this atmosphere can make you feel safer and more willing to engage in sometimes life-altering conversations.
Come back to each other.
Let me help you build or restore the bridge that leads you back together again.
Let me help you get closer than you’ve ever been before.
Let me help you discover and achieve that “More!”
Reach out to me (207) 619-0699.